What is a taboo when working with youth? Drugs? Sex? Violence? Scientific Theory? Broken homes? “Cursing”?…feelings and attitudes towards these topics (and more) shift depending on where you are and who you are….which makes the subject quite sticky..it also makes it difficult for theatre companies and artists working with youth to navigate what is and is not appropriate subject matter to concern themselves with in order to placate the largest number of patrons. What one gatekeeper might find totally appropriate, another might have a huge problem with!
Personally, I feel like there are no “taboos” when working with youth…or anyone for that matter. Life is about questioning and growing and learning…exposing yourself to all that is out there. When we grow up we develop a very “idealized” concept of what childhood is or should be. It comes from a good place, I think…wanting to shield/protect young people from what can be the harsh realities of life…so afraid that they will “grow up to soon” or become jaded somehow. The truth is, some topics can be A LOT for ANYONE to handle or process…regardless of age. The key is to be there and be willing to discuss and explore the thoughts and feelings that these topics spark. Yes, sometimes those conversations can be difficult…and awkward…and uncomfortable…yet, necessary.
So, no…I’m not saying that we should just thrust violent, sexual images in front of our children with no explanation…I’m saying that I believe that children comprehend and see and are exposed to a great deal more than most of us care to admit…and that the most responsible thing to do is make sure that this exposure also comes with an openness and willingness to talk, question, and unpack these emotions together so that as people grow, they learn to process information, form their own opinions, and make informed choices…
I, for one, am an eternal optimist. I can’t help it. Upon initially meeting me, most people get the impression it is because I am not exposed to any “unpleasantness” in life…that my world is full of rainbows and puppy dogs. However, hold a real conversation with me, get to know me better and you will see that this simply is not the case…in fact, its where the title of this blog came from….my colleague Brandon looked at me one day and said, ‘You’re not just a rainbow, Courtney…you’re a rainbow on FIRE!!!” ….and yes, I am š